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Healthy Relationships Toolkit was formerly called "Dating Matters Toolkit"

Parent Programs

Program Overview

Parents have a crucial role to play in preventing violence in adolescence. The Healthy Relationships Toolkit (HeaRT) parent programs provide parents of 6th, 7th, and 8th graders with skills that encourage positive interactions and open communication with their children.

The HeaRT parent programs help parents teach their children about respectful, nonviolent relationships. The programs use a mix of learning activities, including sharing information, group discussions, role-playing, hands-on exercises, and at-home practice. These activities give parents tools for positive parenting and effective communication, while also helping them talk with their children about healthy and safe relationships.

An online version of the HeaRT parent programs is also available. The Healthy Relationships Toolkit: Training for Parents is a free, self-paced course for parents and caregivers of teens that gives any parent (even if their child isn't receiving HeaRT youth programs) access to the content. Schools and community organizations can promote the online training to parents in addition to offering the in-person programs to reach as many families as possible.

Components of the HeaRT model

HeaRT is a comprehensive model to prevent teen dating violence. It consists of four areas: Community, Community and Relationship, Relationship, and Individual. Components of the HeaRT Toolkit under Community include the Capacity Assessment and Planning Tool, Guide to Using Indicator Data, and Guide to Informing Policy. Under Community Relations components include Training for Educators and i2i What R U Looking 4? - Youth Communications Program. The Relationships area of the model includes Parent Programs-- which consists of Families for Safe Dates - 8th Grade, HeaRT for Parents - 7th Grade, and Parents Matter! for HeaRT - 6th Grade. The Individual area of the model includes Youth Programs-- which consists of HeaRT - 6th Grade, HeaRT - 7th Grade, and Safe Dates - 8th Grade.

Parent Programs At-a-glance

Roles Responsible for Implementing Parent Programs
Prevention Lead
Prevention Lead
HeaRT Coach
HeaRT Coach
Parent Program Facilitator
Parent Program Facilitator
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